Making Dreams Reality

Another Tony Robbins saying is “Where focus goes energy flows.”⁸ Many entrepreneurs and successful people in life use a laser-beam focus to achieve and hit their desired targets. Now, it’s your turn to accomplish and unleash greatness within. As the Nike slogan states, “Just do it.”

Are you fearful? Do it anyway! Ardent desires backed by your whys, self-belief, and united with colossal immediate action are vital ingredients toward producing massive forward momentum that leads to continual progressive growth and making your dreams a reality.

Prioritizing Life

Prioritize what you want in major categories of your life. This includes relationships, parenting, education, spirituality, mindset, personal-growth, health, work, finances, and giving back to society and the world. List a minimum of five things you desire to achieve in each category during the upcoming one to five years. Following is an example of my desires. Make your goals relative to meeting your unique desires, needs, expectations, and standards set for yourself. Remember, this is about what you can do, not someone else, and not trying to change anyone, except you. Relationships can be many….

 

Relations 1 2 3 4 5
Spouse Say I love you upon awakening and departure, or more. Perpetually date her as though we are first meeting. Hug her daily and kiss her each night before bed, or more often. Be fully present and engaged while listening. Authentically care about and encourage her dreams.
Child Say I love you and hug him two times daily, or more. Read to him for 20 minutes daily, or more. Together, play a game he enjoys twice weekly, or more. Go someplace new once monthly, or more. Ask and support what he is passionate about consistently.
Friend Genuinely listen, love, and laugh. Ask if he is upholding his moral codes? Tell him I appreciate him. Go on an adventure together. Ask, “How can I help?”
Parenting Teach the difference between right and wrong. Show consistent unconditional love and acceptance. Maintain boundaries backed with high standards or expectations, values, and principles. Know his friends. Tell him that he can come to me about anything at any time. Maintain trust and open communication.
Education Write and publish a book to help people make positive life-producing choices. Learn two new words, daily. Step outside my comfort zone daily. Read daily for at least 30 minutes. Teach others what you learn through writing, speaking, and blogging.
Spiritual Pray with a thankful heart throughout the day. Live joyfully by being peaceful and grateful. Engage with like-minded people offering hope and encouragement. Read the Bible, devotionals or inspirational books daily. Go off in nature for 20 plus minutes while meditating on its’ beauty at least twice weekly.
Mindset Write for at least 10 minutes each day in a gratitude journal. Self-reflect upon what is learned and done daily. Listen to positive and inspiring podcasts, books or videos daily. Read about uplifting stories of triumph daily. Desire an abundance of health, wealth, love, and joy in the lives of everyone that comes my way.
Personal-growth Be vulnerable by sharing life victories to help others. Do what makes you uncomfortable, daily. Read and write for 20 minutes or more, daily. Read your goals and look at your vision boards three times daily. Persevere by never, never, never, never, giving in or giving up on your passionate dreams.
Health Exercise five times weekly, or more. Eat mostly foods that are natural without synthetic fillers. Be mindful of your thoughts, attitudes, beliefs, and principles. Ceaselessly, love and totally accept yourself, daily. Know your triggers and maintain the rituals that minimize stressors and tempters, while maximizing the best version of yourself.
Work Show empathy. Help frequently. Enhance my current skill-sets and knowledge. Add more value by learning new skills. Mentor and role model for others.
Finances Pay yourself at least 10% first, no matter what. Do not borrow money, except for your mortgage and education. Focus on income as being the outcome. Patiently be in it for the long term, while building assets and minimizing liabilities. Think of ways to add more value to many.
Giving Give free seminars and speaking events about enhancing quality of life. Share my time generously with my family and friends. Share monetary resources with causes I believe in. Teach about health techniques to prevent pain and suffering, while maximizing energy and joy. Give or create in yourself the tools necessary to offer more to your family and the world.

“Strong reasons make strong actions” (William Shakespeare). Next, make a list of as many reasons why you want to accomplish those aims. The more whys in each category can make something on your list that was once number one priority, change to number three or four, while number two or five moves into the first place slot. Whichever target in each category has the most reasons why it is important and purpose-driven for you to achieve that objective, make it your number one priority and develop a single-minded focus on accomplishing those specific goals first. You can still do the others, just put more conscious effort into your primary focus.

Going Above and Beyond

The insightful, practical, and applicable Bible advises, “Ask and you shall receive.” Formulate your own powerful questions and receive superior answers toward solving problems. Be the solution to your own problems, circumstances, situations, goals, dreams, or desires, today. Nobody owns your thoughts, attitudes, beliefs, behaviors, dreams, life philosophies, destiny or life, except you. Practice outgiving everyone around you in terms of being better than anyone else expects from you. Under promise and over deliver.

Easing Another’s Burden

“If I can stop one heart from breaking, if I can ease one pain, then my life will not have been in vain” (Emily Elizabeth Dickinson). Remember that motive matters greatly. Relationships of great value are truly invaluable. Focus your time and resources upon adding value to the human condition by generously helping others with your time, talents, skills, gifts, and abilities.

Friendship

Imagine exchanging $10 for $500. That would be a good deal. How much more important is your own life or another’s, than money? Authentic relationships with wonderful loving family members and loyal friends are truly priceless.

“Friendship is like money, easier made than kept” (Samuel Butler). Friends are who we become like in thought, attitudes, behavior, success, character, principles, life philosophy, and moral code, therefore be choosy who you become friends with. Treasure friendships more than any material, monetary or replaceable items because few real friends whom are truly dependable, honest, and morally upright in character may cross your path during this life.

“A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out” (Walter Winchell). This type of friendship is rare and to be cherished. We can all help each other, but true friends are few. Possessing an abundance of money is a wonderful desire and blessing as long as a noble purpose exists for that currency.

Law of Replacement

How likely or unlikely are you to you swap a bad habit for a good habit in the next month? Stop saying “I can’t… (fill in the blank), stop smoking” because that is linking your identity with that deadly ritual and preventing victory over the long term. Giving something bad or of lesser value for something good, great, exceptional, lifesaving and invaluable is a deal worth creating and doing. Best of all, there is enormous upside with minimal if any downside, while becoming a winner. Never short change yourself by sacrificing a thing now, for a much worthier and greater purpose that reaps impressive returns and results later.

Forming Good Habits is a Choice

Today, on a scale from 1-10, whereas 1 is very unlikely and 10 is extremely probable, how ready are you to begin exercising, quit smoking, eat healthy, abandon bad relationships and poor influences, decide to do or create your best work, stop spending more income than you produce, give your time and talents freely to someone without thought of return, learn something new, eradicate an alcohol or drug problem, hug and kiss your spouse and kids, recognize and rid a bad habit, clean and organize your house and car, or relentlessly love and accept yourself completely? You cannot pick number 7. After selecting your question(s) and number(s), ask yourself, “Why didn’t I choose a lower number?” If you picked the number 1, please use discretion toward seeking expert counsel in whichever area necessary.

Effort

“Success is dependent on effort” (Sophocles). Put forth the effort and work like your life depended on it, because it just might. Let your diligent habitual work ethic empower and motivate you to succeed, like oxygen keeping every cell in your body alive. Do not lower your standards, lest neglect, procrastination, and compromise devour dreams like a thief seeking to kill and destroy. Remember, we get what we tolerate, therefore settle for nothing less than your absolute best. Go to bed each night knowing you spent your passionate self completely, hence sleep like a baby without worry or concerns of any kind.

Goal Attainment

”Never mistake motion for action” (Ernest Hemingway). Be specific and meticulously detailed about goals, while writing your objectives down on paper every day so time does not slip away into eternal lost yesterdays. Be precise so your navigational mapping system allows exact action-based directions to get you desirable triumphant results. Read the goals you’re working on three times daily, upon awakening, mid-day, and prior to departure. Additionally, dedication, commitment, determination, and perseverance are helpful advocates supporting goal and dream attainment, which cannot be delegated.